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“A Journey of a Thousand Miles begins with a single step.”

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About this website

My name is Srinath Sitaraman. I recently undertook a backpacking trip around Tamil Nadu, and thoroughly enjoyed my trip. Somewhere during the middle of the trip, I realized that I somehow need to document my trip – but not just for for my own records for seeing at a later time – but record it in a way that is actually useful for others who would like to travel around Tamil Nadu and Pondicherry but do not know where to start or do not have the time. But, why did I myself travel around Tamil Nadu, and why do I feel like I can help more people to travel around Tamil Nadu and Pondicherry?

I am originally from Tamil Nadu i.e. born / raised here, but have since migrated to the United States. As a kid, I have travelled to many parts of India, thanks to my mom working for a bank where it was the norm for banks to give its employees what used to be called a LFC (Leave Fare Concession), which could be used to travel to far and away parts of the country. My mom systematically planned for and availed the LFC, and took our family (while I was still a child) to visit many parts of India including Delhi, Calcutta (current day Kolkata), Bombay (Mumbai), Agra, Jaipur, Bangalore (Bengaluru), Hyderabad, Gangtok, Dehradun and so many other places around India. However, within Tamil Nadu which is where we are originally from, any intra-state travel was largely limited to going to stay at my grandparents house in Kumbakonam for summer vacations. These travels too were for all intents and purposes were point-to-point trips, so I had barely done any sight seeing trips within Tamil Nadu. The only time I had previously ever set foot on beautiful Pondicherry (which is only ~150 Km / 90 miles from my home in Chennai) was on a quick-fire restaurant stop on the way back from Kumbakonam to Chennai. Even as an adult, I have had the pleasure and privilege of traveling to places like Prague (Czech Republic), Santiago (Chile), London, Paris, Singapore etc… and of course in the United States. So, it bothered me at times usually after wrapping up a family vacation trip from US to India, that I should actually take the time to go be a tourist in my own backyard (i.e. Tamil Nadu).

Cut to July 2022, at the end of yet another family vacation trip from US to India (typical Chennai/Mumbai family visit), we capped off the trip with a family trip to Delhi, Agra and Jaipur. I have been to these places before, but yet continued to be awestruck by the magnificent Taj Mahal, Fatehpur Sikri Fort, Qutb Minar, Amber palace etc… and so many other wonderful structures and sites in the Golden triangle. And then I thought to myself that while we travelled 1000s of kilometers from Chennai to see these wonderful places that are give-or-take 300-500 years old, there are equally magnificent places / sites which were built 1000-2000 years ago right in my own backyard in Tamil Nadu. After this trip, my thus-far passive yearning to travel around Tamil Nadu became an active pursuit and I started to think about the right time to make this trip. I also gave some thought to how best to break down covering such a large state over the next 4-5 trips forthcoming family trips to India.

Cut to February 2023, I completed 5 years of service at my company. With every 5 years of service, the company affords its employees a month long paid sabbatical. As I started giving thought to what I intend to do with my sabbatical, it became increasingly clear that this provided me the best opportunity to go backpacking in Tamil Nadu and Pondicherry. This is the long story about the ‘Why?’ behind me undertaking the 21-day “solo” back packing trip around Tamil Nadu and Pondicherry.

But the actual trip was preceded by a 2+ month of planning (and many preceding months of passive research), I almost feel like I made the trip twice – once in my mind before I even set foot in the ground, and then the actual trip. I like travel planning (to a certain degree), but this one I took extra care to ensure no stone was left unturned before I left. Almost 99% of the trip went exactly as I planned, sometimes freakishly to the minute that I had written down in the plan many weeks back. For me this was not just packing up and wandering down the street to see what comes next; my travel had a lot of intent, preparation and research, and I tried to keep it loose while on the ground. I felt this planning should not be lost, and that I think I can at least pass this along to others who want to come visit these awesome places in Tamil Nadu and Pondicherry – which is the long story about the ‘Why?’ for putting together this website.

Here’s a 18-min video of my backpacking trip around Tamil Nadu.


Payments in India – My observations and experience

To state the obvious, when you travel to a foreign place, one needs to know how you can pay for stuff – what the local currency is, the currency conversion, and of course the modus of payment. Most people especially from the west, would simply be used to making a payment with Visa / Mastercard Credit Card wherever they go. But not in India. In India, Visa / Mastercard is accepted in many places, and Cash is still king at most places. But, by far, the most common form of accepting payment I encountered during my travel was the UPI (Unified Payments Interface) based QR code system that’s everywhere. The success of UPI has been well chronicled and will be a case study of payments innovation at scale for years to come. In this particular post, I wanted to share what I saw at the grassroots level, and it is a tale of two different realities – what I saw vs what I experienced.

First what I saw at the – a few anecdotes from my own trip on how digital payments has become ubiquitous and democratized in India:

1. I was sitting at a beach in Pondicherry staring into the vast expanse of the ocean. Just then a beggar walked up to me and asked for money. I said in a very matter of fact tone – “I don’t have any money on me, I didn’t bring my wallet. “ Normally with this response, the person moves on. Not this beggar. Seeing my phone next to me, she responded to me in a very matter of fact tone – “so what you don’t have your wallet, you’ve got your phone. Just GPAY me the money.” I was flabbergasted for a few seconds.

2. I took a state operated bus from Chennai to Pondicherry. A couple of hours into the journey, the bus conductor walked past me to two guys in the front who both had to get off at the next bus stop, and the conductor owed them some change. He told them. “I have to give each of you 5 Rupees. But I have only a 10 Rupee note. I will give it to one of you, and you just GPAY 5 Rupees to the other person”. He said this and walked away nonchalantly. For a second, I was curious how these guys would react. What if one of the guys did not have a phone? What if one of them did not have GPAY? Why did the bus conductor just assume that these random strangers would be willing to do this? Isn’t the conductor obligated to hand them each back their respective change instead of having these strangers engage in a financial transaction? However, to my amazement, without batting an eye, the first guy opened his phone, and asked for the UPI ID of the second guy, transferred the money, flashed up the phone to show the confirmation; and off they went their separate ways. It was really that casual.

3. I was eating at a mall food court in Coimbatore. On my next table, a family of 4 was having their lunch as well. The boy, about 8 years old, shouted to his sister across the table – “hey, pass me the GPAY”. And he shouted this 3-4 times, as all annoying little brothers do. For a second, I thought to myself – what does it mean to pass the GPAY. As I turned around to see what they were referring to – the sister picked up the food receipt in front of her and passed it to her brother. I was astonished – GPAY is so commonplace in India, that in the minds of little kids in India (I am making a gross projection here of course), GPAY is used interchangeably with anything else that’s associated with the purchase activity (in this case the receipt).

4. At Hogenakkal water falls, I took a boat ride, parisal (coracle) to be precise. During this boat ride , many street-vendors turned river-vendors come on a boat and sell you stuff like Chips, Soda etc… Even these sail-away sellers accepted Paytm.

I have a few more examples from my trip, like a Pichavaram boat driver asking for me to GPAY the tip amount to him so he doesn’t have to carry the cash (as it might get wet), but I think these go to make the point. GPAY, Paytm, UPI are everywhere – it has truly democratized payments in India in every sense of that word. It all works flawlessly and beautifully at massive scale…if you are part of the system.

If you are not part of the system already (as in newly entering into this domestic payment setup), it’s very difficult – as was my experience. I had an Indian phone. I have an Indian NRE account which was setup for digital wallets, but yet there was hurdle after hurdle to get myself set up with GPAY or BHIM. My mom being a proud proponent of the Fintech innovation happening in India, and me being a payment geek – we tried, and tried hard, to get this to work. Alas, we couldn’t make it work even after trying for 3-4 days and after several calls to the bank; so, we gave up. Thankfully, I had an Indian debit card with me – which I was able to use at some places that accepted card and withdrew cash from time to time. In a land where payments innovation is happening at scale, I felt like fish out water. This was again my experience from May’23, and this personal anecdote could quickly change, and I hope it does.

I don’t know who needs to fix this – the bank, NPCI or wallet providers like GPAY, but I can say for sure that while they are operating flawlessly for the 99th percentile, I believe they can address the edge cases, and error handling and consumer messaging thereof in a better way to make it more seamless for foreign travelers who are looking to enter into the domestic payment setup for a brief few days.


Poem in Pondicherry

I had a lot of time, and I mean a lot, in Pondicherry. Every evening, for the 5 days that I was in Pondicherry, I spent at least 2-3 hours at the Rock beach – either walking or just sitting and listening to the crashing waves. One of the nights was a New moon night, the beach was pitch dark and the only thing that was really giving some light was the white waves crashing into the shore. Seeing a couple of families next to where I was sitting, I couldn’t help but think that just about a week before that night, I was in a Hawaii beach with my wife and kids, and here I was by myself. I missed my family very much at that instant. The sound of the waves crashing into the shore kept bringing me back to the present and suddenly a deluge of random yet meaningful words started pouring in what seemed like a poetic structure. I ignored for a while and kept going back to my thoughts, but eventually started to take down the stream of words on my phone and over the next 15 minutes wrote into this poem. This poem dedicated to my family and to Pondicherry Rock Beach. The poem goes:

Pondicherry Rock Beach, on a quiet new moon night

பார்குடத்தின் ஏழேழு கடல்களில் ஒன்றாய்

பால் நிறத்தில் மிளிரும் வங்காள விரிகுடா!

தார்ரோட்டு வானத்தில் விழுந்த ஜிமிக்கி கற்களை, என் கண்ணில்

தாள் போட்டு வைத்து திறக்காமலே இருக்கவா?

காற்றோடு அலை அடிக்கும் ஓசையும், தந்தை கைப்பிடித்த சிறுமி

கால் நனைத்து சிரிக்கும் ஓசை போலும் இனிய ஒலி இவ்வுலகில் வேறேதும் இருக்குதா?

Translation:

Of the many seas of this world, you, the Bay of Bengal, are standing out tonight thanks to your glistening milky color.

Oh, the stars that shine so bright on this new moon night, as if some precious gem stones were lost carelessly on a black tar road, should I just lock this beauty in my eyes so you are not lost again?

Oh, the sound of the breeze and the waves crashing into the shore, and the sounds of laughter of a little girl holding her father’s hand playing in the beach – are there any other sweeter sounds in this world?

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